Shardale Alcohol Rehabilitation Philosophy
At Shardale, we do not refer to people as
‘alcoholics’, nor do we subscribe to the belief that dependent people
have a disease known as ‘alcoholism’. We feel that this view of
labelling people as sick is not only totally disempowering but also
relieves that person of the full responsibility for their behaviour –
behaviour that we maintain is always chosen. What we do believe, is that
many people behave in irresponsible and misguided ways in attempts to
meet their needs, and that these can result in harm being done to all
aspects of their lives, their relationships, and to other people’s lives
too.
Our goal at Shardale is to help people to choose to stop drinking, to
rebuild their lives and to begin to make much more healthy, more
constructive, need-satisfying choices. Essential to making these choices
is the quality re-connection with other people, so that they may begin
to lose the perception that alcohol is the solution to all problems.
To this end Shardale provides, as the necessary component of change, a
warm, accepting, trusting and empathic environment. Change occurs when
there is a belief and confidence in a better future and this is the role
of the therapeutic environment.
There are certain toxic attitudes that are sometimes present in
approaches or programmes, and these kill attempts at change and growth;
these include: criticising, arguing, belittling, shaming, demanding,
demeaning, dismissing, and the like. Helpful behaviours, on the other
hand, include: attending, trusting, respecting, helping, listening,
empathy, modelling and encouraging. Our experience tells us that change
is possible when the environment is conducive – and a change that can
last.
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